Recently every couple in my grade has broken up, even the two i thought destiny had set forever! Im pretty sure they were gonna get married... but no, they broke up. So what is with all this breaking? Why is everybody single? I guess true love is easy to find but hard to keep. I know i found true love at least 3x and look at me, single. What happened to love anyways? no one beleives in it anymore. Or their version of love is totally screwed up! Thanks Hollywood.
In reality, love is not easy to find and its really not easy to keep, its something you're constantly working on. But people would just like to beleive that its supposed to be handed to them just the way they want it. and when things get rough, they act stupid and do stupid things.
Love is difficult 80% of the time and beautiful 20%. But that 20% of goodness is SO good, that it makes love worth bearing through the difficult times.
Monday, June 25, 2012
Thursday, June 21, 2012
Idiots
I met a really cute guy at my church and we really started getting to know each other, i thought "hey, maybe i won't be single for much longer." Turns out he just want to have sex with me, he never wanted a relationship. Im just sick of people. People like my friend's cuz who raped his brother and people like the guy at my church and people like my dad who cheated on my mom. Why does everything eventually go bad? Im sick of men, they never like you for you, they only ever wanna use you. Ive been so stupid for letting guys use me, they not worth any fucking tear i cried for them. My dad, my friends cuz, people like that disgust me they less than dirt to me and im sick of them.
Am i still waiting
for this world to stop hating
can't find a good reason
can't find hope to beleive in
Im not a part of the world, i hate this and look forward to my future in heaven, where i dont deal with idiots and all i have is God.
Am i still waiting
for this world to stop hating
can't find a good reason
can't find hope to beleive in
Im not a part of the world, i hate this and look forward to my future in heaven, where i dont deal with idiots and all i have is God.
Sunday, June 17, 2012
The Fight
I always thought that what we had was special enough to fight for. But I can’t fight alone. - anonymous
Response:
I feel you. If you really think that the relationship is worth fighting for, then it is! Don't give up! But if the person doesn't feel the same way then maybe you should reconsider whether it is. Whatever you decide remember that it takes two to tango, so if your the one putting in all the effort to make things work and the others not doing anything, then maybe it just isnt meant to be. Wisdom and Patience my Friend, Good Luck!
Response:
I feel you. If you really think that the relationship is worth fighting for, then it is! Don't give up! But if the person doesn't feel the same way then maybe you should reconsider whether it is. Whatever you decide remember that it takes two to tango, so if your the one putting in all the effort to make things work and the others not doing anything, then maybe it just isnt meant to be. Wisdom and Patience my Friend, Good Luck!
Regret
I regret not telling you how I felt when I had the chance. Timing is everything, and it was all wrong. Looking back, though, I wish I’d just taken the chance when I had it.
Hopefully we’ll find our way back to each other someday. I don’t think we found each other to have it end the way it did.
Until then, I’ll miss you every day, Kiddo. - anonymous
Response:
Sometimes we can’t see the forest for the trees. Life is complicated and I am assuming that you are here because it is and you feel lost. Sometimes, though, we make life more complicated than it really is. If you and this person belong together, life won’t magically turn things around. Truth is, sometimes out of fear, out of circumstances, we make mistakes, we hold back, we lose chances, we say things we don’t want to say or we don’t say the things we do want to say. Sometimes we wait too long to fix what needs to be fixed because we think that “if it’s meant to be, it will happen” but destiny has limits, we need to set things in motion.
I don’t know your circumstances. I don’t know who you are, but I do know that it’s never too late to say you are sorry if that’s what you need to say. It’s never too late to say you care about someone or that you love someone if that’s what you need to say. Maybe they don’t love you back, maybe they won’t accept your apology, but even if they don’t, you’ll get closure. And if they do, then maybe now you will have the chance to be happy, the chance that you didn’t have before, because of the bad timing. Truth is, this person might have no idea you miss him/her and maybe that will make all the difference.
I am not telling you to speak up now, that’s your call and I do believe that you need to be ready before and sure before saying anything. It seemed to me that whatever you two had was special. That’s not something you encounter many times in life.
I wish you all the best and send you all the positive energy I have in my heart.
Best of luck
Hopefully we’ll find our way back to each other someday. I don’t think we found each other to have it end the way it did.
Until then, I’ll miss you every day, Kiddo. - anonymous
Response:
Sometimes we can’t see the forest for the trees. Life is complicated and I am assuming that you are here because it is and you feel lost. Sometimes, though, we make life more complicated than it really is. If you and this person belong together, life won’t magically turn things around. Truth is, sometimes out of fear, out of circumstances, we make mistakes, we hold back, we lose chances, we say things we don’t want to say or we don’t say the things we do want to say. Sometimes we wait too long to fix what needs to be fixed because we think that “if it’s meant to be, it will happen” but destiny has limits, we need to set things in motion.
I don’t know your circumstances. I don’t know who you are, but I do know that it’s never too late to say you are sorry if that’s what you need to say. It’s never too late to say you care about someone or that you love someone if that’s what you need to say. Maybe they don’t love you back, maybe they won’t accept your apology, but even if they don’t, you’ll get closure. And if they do, then maybe now you will have the chance to be happy, the chance that you didn’t have before, because of the bad timing. Truth is, this person might have no idea you miss him/her and maybe that will make all the difference.
I am not telling you to speak up now, that’s your call and I do believe that you need to be ready before and sure before saying anything. It seemed to me that whatever you two had was special. That’s not something you encounter many times in life.
I wish you all the best and send you all the positive energy I have in my heart.
Best of luck
Saturday, June 16, 2012
Why
why do things like this happen? why couldn’t we be together when we had everything going on for us? why did we have to meet when we did? why is time always against me?
why can’t i just have faith? - anonymous
Response:
I know exactly where you’re coming from. I’ve just recently started trying to get over someone. It going to be a tough road ahead for me, but it’s becoming extremely necessary. Every time I reach out to him, he refuses to talk to me. I can’t for the life of me understand what he’s so afraid of. I’m beginning to wonder if he was placed right in the middle of my life to test and challenge me. I can’t think of any other reason, since he doesn’t seem to care about me as much as I do him. Life isn’t fair. That’s the only thing I can say. Best of luck. I hope this guy grows the pair of balls he is lacking and goes back to you, if you really belong together.
A hug from the distance.
why can’t i just have faith? - anonymous
Response:
I know exactly where you’re coming from. I’ve just recently started trying to get over someone. It going to be a tough road ahead for me, but it’s becoming extremely necessary. Every time I reach out to him, he refuses to talk to me. I can’t for the life of me understand what he’s so afraid of. I’m beginning to wonder if he was placed right in the middle of my life to test and challenge me. I can’t think of any other reason, since he doesn’t seem to care about me as much as I do him. Life isn’t fair. That’s the only thing I can say. Best of luck. I hope this guy grows the pair of balls he is lacking and goes back to you, if you really belong together.
A hug from the distance.
Friday, June 15, 2012
Love Complaints
Hey, this is a new blog I've started, but is based entirely on readers content! Its all about venting about your boyfriend/girlfriend or significant other, but doing it anonymously. Its a great way to get things off your chest and relate with other people!
If you would like to add to this blog, please send your complaints to
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Entries can be as long or as short as you like and pictures are allowed. but please don't give away your identity or the person you are venting about!
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If you would like to add to this blog, please send your complaints to
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Entries can be as long or as short as you like and pictures are allowed. but please don't give away your identity or the person you are venting about!
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